Billy
had uncles and older cousins who had told him how to mack the ladies. He had
male role models to watch. Neither of his biological parents were around. His
aunt, his father’s sister, who was single and had no children of her own, had
custody of him and his two sisters.
Marcus
was an only child to his mother. His mom had only one sister, who had one child
fifteen years older than Marcus and she lived out of state. Marcus visited her
one or twice in his life for summer vacations and stayed no longer than two
weeks before he was calling his mom ready to come home. They didn’t force him
to stay the entire summer, they sent him home as soon as he started to whine
about it being boring and nothing to do and saying he wanted to go home.
His
father was around, but not at all attentive to his children. Marcus was one of
six children he had fathered. He had a relationship and two children when he
got Marcus and is now with some child wasting her youth on him and three little
ones. He sees Marcus every now and then, but has no real genuine input or
influence on him.
He
may have given him some pointers on girls when he turned twelve, with a “just
remember that” at the end of his advice, being around his father, watching him
in action made Marcus say, “He talks to every woman he sees.”
His
learning about how to mack the ladies came from his peers. He learned as he had
watched and listened to men talk in the barber shop where he got his hair cut,
the way they gave tips on how to schmooze the ladies even without spending a
dime. He heard one of the guys say, “Just smile and stare into her eyes, and
don’t say anything, she will say something first.” “Give a compliment about
what she’s wearing with a smile on your face, say, “I like the color of your
lip gloss or something, but keep it respectful”.
Billy
was “the man” and at least he liked competition, it gave him more courage.
Having Marcus around inspired him to greatness.
Marcus
admired the way Billy could talk to the girls so easily and attract their
attention. He was raised a bit more conservatively, but he was not afraid to
talk when Billy was around him. When Billy was not there, he hesitated.
Not
having pier support and the dare to front your skills or show off is not a
quality of his character, unless encouraged just to build each others self
esteem. These guys made each other feel good. They were good to each other and
they were good boys.
They
were both quite handsome and the girls were just as anxious to meet and talk to
boys as the boys in their age group. Young teens have a way with each other
that doesn’t make it too difficult to communicate if they are just being them
selves. It’s the attraction age and nothing really matters or changes that.
They
responded to each other, some of them whooped and hollered, but learning the
opposite sex was part of their life conquests now. It is a built in path whose
time it has come to follow!
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